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Life in her thirties: written, felt, and sometimes over-thought.

Happy birthday! Your 20s are now just memories as you enter a new era. I’m just so proud of you.

You were pretty stressed about turning 30, but I’m glad you overcame the fears.

You are entering your 30th year of life confident, happy, content with your small circle, and more appreciative of life than ever before. You have been through enough to give you wisdom and strength to tackle anything in the future. You’re so sure of who you are as a person and you don’t need validation from anyone. You are living life on your own terms, and at a pace that feels most comfortable to you. You feel respectable, wise, and stronger than ever. You’re not scared of turning 30…you’re so happy to be here.

Always remember some of the valuable things you learned in your 20s: Always appreciate the little things • Don’t waste your energy or attention on the negative • Pay close attention to the people in your life who are truly there for you; luckily you won’t have to do anything, they’ll show themselves • Don’t ever feel guilty for saying no • Keep laughing everything off • Live life at your own pace and don’t feel rushed or pressured to do anything • Always lead with your good heart and if you’re sad, lean on those who really care and will help you feel better (you know who they are) • It’s okay to ask for help • Always put yourself first • Travel your little heart out! • Spend time with your parents • If you’re feeling lost or unmotivated, remember creativity and the beach are good for the soul • Go easy on yourself.

What a blessing it is to make it to 30! When someone says, “dang, you’re 30?!” you better say, “hell yeah, I am!”

No matter what age, you know life is all about your attitude. You’ve embraced all the changes, experiences, and challenges you’ve been faced with so far. Keep it up and go celebrate the start of a new chapter!

Oh, and don’t count your candles girl…light them up and enjoy the glow!

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4 responses to “A Letter To Myself at 30”

  1. Pauleen Ealdama Avatar
    Pauleen Ealdama

    Hi Ate Andie, Happy birthday i hope we can meet soon and bonding! take care always love u.

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    1. Andie Avatar

      Thank you! Yes hopefully soon!

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  2. Toni Noland Avatar
    Toni Noland

    What a beautiful letter. I hope you had a great special day. May God continue to bless your life. Love, Grandma Toni 🎶🎂🎈❤️😘🙏🏼✝️🌼🌺🌸🌼🌺🌸🌺

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    1. Andie Avatar

      Thank you, Grandma Toni!

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